Sex is hard to talk about because we don't know how or when to talk about it. Even writing this I have no clue what to say. There's also the added complications of gender identity and sexual orientation. There's also porn addiction. Also with the introduction of 50 shades of grey the fetish and kink community is now in the spot light.
The church has messed with our heads as well. Those of us who have not had sex yet are curious and have had it bashed in our heads that it's precious. I read an article about this girl who had to leave the church because after she got married she felt guilty and dirty. We as Christians have to ask ourselves have we shamed sex?
I was always taught that sex was beautiful when done in the "right way". That means any reason beyond love is wrong. This day and age sex is so different because people don't wait for love, they also don't just do it with people who they love. We shouldn't "shame" those who have sex nor should we shame those who haven't.
Sex shouldn't be this ugly thing we don't talk about cause then people act out. Parents should also say if the kid should do something before marriage there is no shame and tell the child about safe sex.
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