I'm single, with out kids and nor do I plan to be getting married or have babies any time soon. Having said that, I wanted to give some advice to all those who are pregnant, married, engaged, parents and are in a relationship. Now I'm not cynical or bitter but you don't have to be those to relate to this post. I'm happy for you but this is what I wish you knew. To all of the groups I've named please don't take what you have for granite and don't complain about what you have to someone who's not in the same boat as you. For example if you're pregnant or have kids don't complain about being pregnant or having kids to someone who doesn't have kids or isn't pregnant because you don't know how they feel about being pregnant they might be longing to be pregnant but can't get pregnant you just never know.
To pregnant people and parents, be careful how you speak to non parents and people who are not pregnant. Some people can't get pregnant so they long for all your complaints if you say "I'm so tired of being pregnant" or whatever you are going to cause women who want to be pregnant but can't get pregnant to you think "at least you are pregnant" and they would get so mad at you so just watch what you say around people because she don't know how much of a longing they have for what you have. Some nonpregnant people look at you and they could be jealous because some women may want to be pregnant but can't get pregnant so they're going to look at you with a jealousy.
To married or engaged people and people in a relationship I say to watch complaints. Also watch over doing PDA. It hurts me when I see everyone paired off. Also when you say stuff like "You'll find someone.... don't worry about it." or "I don't understand why you're still single." I don't know why I'm still single, I take comfort in the fact that at least I have my friends.
So to everyone who isn't single or childless I say be nice and just be a friend
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