When I started hanging out with my friend Philip, I kept it secret. I know how people think, a sweet (and at times naïve) girl hanging out with a much older man would cause all my family and friends to worry. See but what people don't know is Philip mentors people who have a rough go of it when it comes to dating. He gives girls hope that there is good guys out there.
I tell that story to say that judgment ruins things. It ruins friendships, relationships, families and your world. I know if anyone in my life judged my friendship with Philip before they knew the whole story and/or him it would change how I view them. It will also put a strain on our relationship. If you have a legit reason for a couple not to be together (abuse, one of them is under 18, etc.) then yes say something.
Also if someone's life style is dangerous or illegal you need to say something. A lot of people have different morals so morality isn't an legit argument. Everyone has a journey and it's not up to anyone else to judge.
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