I wanted to wait to talk about the Duggar controversy until I knew how I felt about it I also didn't want to have anything I say on here to hurt the family or anyone else who may have been a victim of molestation or anything similar. So for those who don't know the Duggars are a family of 19 kids and 6 grand kids and they also are known for not being able to touch during courtship or dating. So my thoughts are kind of mixed. On the one hand part of me thinks they it was a long time coming that there is going to be something wrong like they were too perfect and there's some crack that was waiting to show. No family is perfect. Also no family has a bunch of kids and not have one that is bad or that is it going to be sexually deviant or anything like that.
My problem with the Duggars is that they don't allow their kids to touch while dating they don't want them to hug, hold hands and not kiss or anything until at least engagement. In this day in age is really unrealistic not because porn is more prevalent but because sex is more openly discussed. Even though I'm not experienced in that I do know that I wonder what does he like what does it feel like. They may have friends who have had sex already and siblings that had sex already. They may wonder what it feel like what is like and so they're going to they're want to experiment with people and that's totally natural but the problem is that their parents think sex is bad you know and they need to realize that they shouldn't shame sex and they shouldn't not discuss sex.
I take offense to the fact that this family disgraces sex and then is hurt when sex is an issue with a child of theirs. I'm hurt for the victims and I'm ashamed of a "Christian guy" has done something so disgusting to young girls. What's even more disgusting and disturbing is that Josh touched his sisters. I could see touching someone else but your sisters GROSS!!!
Please tell me what you guys think!!!
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