We have a natural need for other people. I had a problem with picking the wrong people, now I'm getting better about picking people. I recently started talking this guy I call paddle. I go to him for advice or for a laugh. Why are people like paddle important?
Reason #1: Sanity/ health. Paddle is good for a laugh if nothing for nothing else. It is shown that laughing is good for the heart and the sanity. We all get stressed out but if we can laugh it will cut the stress. I forget what I was stressed or mad about when I'm laughing at something stupid paddle said.
Reason #2: prospective! When I say something stupid paddle says "noooo player! Nah uh fruit loop." I just start laughing. You got to know that with me and paddle there's no filter on either one of us which makes for some interesting conversations. I end up laughing at some comment he makes and he probably thinks I'm crazy.
Reason #3: biblical. The bible says that it's not good for men to be alone. That just means we can't do life alone we need people. We may not like people but we need people!
So people like paddle are so important because they're just good for us. They don't ask for much. Paddle even calls just to check in if he doesn't hear from me for awhile (I hear the collective awww already and I know!). I have a hot date for valentine's day and he offered to help pick out the dress. It's kind of cool how this guy operates, just so laid back and awesome.
So paddle thanks for being well you!
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