the adult entertainment industry effect

          The average age that someone sees porn is 11. The problem with porn is that it's not real what you see on that screen is what that producer and director thought a good looking couple looked like doing something that only married people should be doing. Also when someone watches the "tame" stuff they may get into the darker stuff.  It can affect how people look at others and look at sex. The person looking at porn may say "hey he/ she won't do this so I should go sleep with someone else."

         Some porn actors are bringing in teenagers either by looking approachable (like James Deen) or being super sexy. I'm not blaming the actors because like James Deen said  "if a teenager is looking at porn it's because they're curious or horny." I agree with him, before they have sex they may be curious about it.

        Porn  becomes a problem when an actor or actress isn't happy or is being disrespected.  One former porn star said in the beginning she felt loved but then she felt used and empty. I can't see that life or line of work being fulfilling for long. One thing is you may feel like you can't tell a lot of people what you do with out them judging you, so you may change it to "indie actor". Some maybe proud of what they do.

       Porn is also a problem if you pay more attention to it than your significant other or if you become addicted. Porn is the reason for almost half of all divorces it's right up there with having and affair. Porn isn't worth losing someone over!! So think before you click!

 

human and sex trafficking

human trafficking: the illegal practice of procuring or trading in human beings for the purpose of prostitution, forced labor, or other forms of exploitation.

Sex trafficking:
The federal Trafficking Victims Protection Act defines the crime of human trafficking as:
A. The recruitment, harboring, transportation, provision, or obtaining of a person for the purpose of a commercial sex act where such an act is induced by force, fraud, or coercion, or in which the person induced to perform such act has not attained 18 years of age, or
B. The recruitment, harboring, transportation, provision, or obtaining of a person for labor or services, through the use of force, fraud, or coercion for the purpose of subjection to involuntary servitude, peonage, debt bondage, or slavery.”
Domestic minor sex trafficking occurs when U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident minors (under the age of 18) are commercially sexually exploited. Children can be commercially sexually exploited through prostitution, pornography, and/or erotic entertainment.
The commercial aspect of the sexual exploitation is critical to separating the crime of trafficking from sexual assault, molestation or rape. The term “commercial sex act” is defined by the federal Trafficking Victims Protection Act as the giving or receiving of anything of value (money, drugs, shelter, food, clothes, etc.) to any person in exchange for a sex act.
The age of the victim is the critical issue — there is no requirement to prove force, fraud, or coercion was used to secure the victim’s actions. The law recognizes the effect of psychological manipulation by the trafficker, as well as the effect of threat of harm which traffickers/pimps use to maintain control over their young victims.

       Sex trafficking can  be caused by a boyfriend/ pimp, a kidnapper or family/ friend. It's a sickening $86 billion a day business. That's right, 86 billion dollars a day! It's happening all  around the world. It's worse today because of back page.com and other websites. What can we do?   If you see something fishy say something! Talk to your government officials about what they are doing. Lets stop this

Abortion

               A few of the girls in the industry may have to endure an abortion. I say endure because some ladies feel guilty or they may have damage that may cause them not be able to have kids. Pro choice people say that they shouldn't feel guilty but you are killing a child! At 4 weeks you have an embryo! At 6 weeks arms, legs and the jaw starts to develop, so does a heart "bulge". So why would you kill something that is already \developing places where certain things will go? It just doesn't make sense.

               Some ladies have some selfish/weird reasons to have abortions like they don't want to get fat. They may also have a pimp. house mother, manager or boyfriend that don't want them to have the kid for whatever reason. Do research before you have an abortion

Volunteer opportunities

  I'm looking for a team of my own we have some requirements for each "positions".

1)gift prep: any age or gender who will help with cards and gifts

2) driver: any gender, 18 years old and will drive to the clubs. If the driver would like to go in to deliver the gifts they have to be a female and 21 or older

3) gift delivering person: goes in and gives gifts to the girls. They may also need to pray with the girls

if interested email me at hockeymissionary@gmail.com

Words hurt

              Recently Bill Cosby was accused of rape by at least 12 women. Now what if these women were lying? Then it would hurt their credibility and his legacy. Is that worth your 15 minutes of fame? I'm not saying who's lying or who I believe because no body was there except for the women and Bill. I wonder who these women are and why they waited so long to step forward if what they say is true. Why wait to come out after the statue of limitations is up? That doesn't make sense.

 

               All this got me thinking about how words hurt. It can be something like accusing someone of something or calling someone one a name that will hurt their feelings. At job corps the b word, the n word and other derogatory terms were dropped so often that if I had a dollar for every time that was used I wouldn't have to work ever! Those words are hurtful and shouldn't be used to describe someone.

 

              I think the world would be a lot better especially for women if derogatory words were cut out of our everyday use

Up the creek with a paddle

           We have a natural need for other people. I had a problem with picking the wrong people, now I'm getting better about picking people. I recently started talking this guy I call paddle. I go to him for advice or for a laugh. Why are people like paddle important?

           Reason #1: Sanity/ health. Paddle is good for a laugh if nothing for nothing else. It is shown that laughing is good for the heart and the sanity. We all get stressed out but if we can laugh it will cut the stress. I forget what I was stressed or mad about when I'm laughing at something stupid paddle said.

           Reason #2: prospective! When I say something stupid paddle says "noooo player! Nah uh fruit loop." I just start laughing. You got to know that with me and paddle there's no filter on either one of us which makes for some interesting conversations. I end up laughing at some comment he makes and he probably thinks I'm crazy.

            Reason #3: biblical. The bible says that it's not good for men to be alone. That just means we can't do life alone we need people. We may not like people but we need people!

            So people like paddle are so important because they're just good for us. They don't ask for much. Paddle even calls just to check in if he doesn't hear from me for awhile (I hear the collective awww already and I know!). I have a hot date for valentine's day and he offered to help pick out the dress. It's kind of cool how this guy operates, just so laid back and awesome.

            So paddle thanks for being well you!
          

Do people change?

              I believe people can change given a good reason. I fully agree with Steve Harvey's quote about guys "guys can and will change for the right woman". Anyone can change for any reason, they just need to want to change. Some people never want to change until they have a very good reason. So why do people want to change?

          Reason #1 is they may loose something. People who may loose their life, a loved one, a job or something of value will change will quick. People have stuff for a reason and they don't want to loose it!

          Reason #2 health. Addictions and being over weight may cause health issues and they will have to change their behavior to fix their health.

          Reason #3 someone/something is inspiring it. Some people may have a loved one or a religion that inspires change. They decide hey this person or religion deserves a better me.

           People may change so please be patient if someone has something that needs to change

    

Obstacles: no

                I recently went on out reach to 3 clubs. I heard two no's and only one yes, I was disappointed by the no's but what could I do? We all have disappointments and times where we hear no. The question is how do you take the word no? Well you have 3 options: be hurt then get over it, take it in stride, and the not so grown up way; just sulk.

               While I was hurt I got over it and I learned to deal with it. I know with this ministry that "No" doesn't mean "no" forever. In life no sometimes means no forever.I know there is a bunch of clubs I can go to. So by the time I go to other clubs I can go back to the ones who said no.

Wanna learn more or help?

Please contact me. I know I can use help and other ministries can use help. Kimball.christina86@gmail.com