I was on dating sites for months and I had 2 thing working against me: my virginity and I wasn't a drop dead gorgeous skinny girl. I had 12 men turn me down because I was a virgin who wasn't willing to send out "intimate pictures". They believed that sex was a huge part of the relationship. I talked to one of my friends and she said that she didn't believe that sex was such a big deal, meaning she thought that sex isn't the end all be all in a relationship. Sex has taken over our world. I can't find a date because I'm not willing to just give it away and there's no way I was sending pictures.
Why is sex such a big deal? I can understand the curiosity of a virgin but being so obsessed with it that you wouldn't date a virgin, that is foreign to me. One of the 12 actually told me that he didn't want to train me. Its unbelievable the excuses I heard.
I want to know what y'all think about dating, virginity & sex. Please leave a comment to start or join the conversation!
