Every girl and woman want certain things like to be loved, to be skinny and to be happy. To be loved and happy sometimes takes work. I have been dating on and off since April this year and it's hard to find a respectful guy. I recently went on a date with a guy who respected me and want to take care of everything on the date. I felt so honored to be on a date with him. These industry women may not have that same experience. They may have had bad experiences like we all have had or sometimes they may have had a worse experience.
There's so many stories of rape, abuse (sexual or other) and molestation in the industry worker's past and sometimes their present. The pain from those experience carry a lot of scares and other damage. Some victims of rape, abuse or molestation may have PTSD. PTSD is scary. It can cause a normal girl into someone who is possibly with drawn, paranoid, scared and moody.
I know someone who asked a prostitute why she does what she does and she said "I was used & screwed over by men so I decided to use them to make money." That's sad, but a reality that may be a common occurrence in the industry. I'm saddened by stories I hear from these girls.
We can't change their past but we can help them change if they want to. We have a hope that they want!
